Wednesday, June 29, 2022

Reconnections (with kids)










One of the amazing parts of our life is the fact that the global wandering lifestyle we've chosen has brought us into contact with an incredible array of people. Thousands of people we've shared our life's journey and story with over the years come from all parts of the world. And in those thousands there is a an number we are fortunate to call friends. And an even smaller group still that we get to call 'chosen family'. Not all parts of the family are connected apart from our presence, and it sure is nice when these connections come together from time to time. 

Summer 2022 was perhaps, best described as a recalibration. It was a chance for us to move beyond the difficulties that our family has had - both through Covid and through the loss of Aleko and Beto in the past two years - and to find joy in the fullness of life's experience. The beginning of the summer found us making our way to Paros where we had arranged a reunion with Scott & Rebecca (of the 'cott and 'becca days), Melissa, John and Izzy (all of who we see, thankfully, more regularly in Muscat) and, for a couple days, with John, Mariam, Arian, Eva and their cousin and aunt. It was, by all accounts, a pretty amazing opportunity to share the fullness of friendship in an idillic environment. 

It was here that the reconnections, the shared stories, the creations of new shared memories, and the experience of being in one place at the same time, made for the perfect melding of mind, and heart and body. The shadows of loss and concern that marked so much of our life in the past two years made way for the amazing place and people we were surrounded with. And we were reminded of the intangibles that fill life's journey with meaning. The love. The banter. The stories. The connections. They bring with them the fullness of experience that makes life so much more meaningful. They also create deeper bonds with those whom we choose to call chosen family. We love you all!

Paros: The Place




We had gone back-and-forth on the conversation related to this reunion. It had been over 10 years since all of us had shared a time and space and so it was important to find a place that worked. Greece?  Yes!  An island? Yes!  But what kind of experience were we looking for?

It didn't take long, with this crew, to realize that any island would do as long as it was fun and authentic and provided us with our space to celebrate our being together. We started with several options and as we looked through the variables - the place, the price, the transit situation, etc. - we finally decided to try out luck at Paros. Our family had been there a few years earlier and loved it and so it was online research to find that 'perfect place' within a reasonable budget. Out of town. With a nice view. Big enough to fit three families (in appropriate groupings). 

We ended up with a beautiful airbnb on the easter side of the island, close to Golden Beach. We had a car, making it simple enough to get around, and needed it because though there was one beach and one taverna within walking distance, there wasn't much else. The taverna, Stella's, was a 10 minute walk away and became the favorite hang out for John and Scott, in particular. And for all of us we found ourselves being attracted to the family style approach of Logaras, just a short drive from our place.  Just beyond that lay Kato Livadi, another little favorite seas side village with just enough of a cosmopolitan feel to make it an excursion. 

We discovered a hidden beach and enjoyed the time there frolicking in the waves and looking out over Naxos' friendly coast looking back. We made our way to Antiparos (which we love) too!  Lots of amazing places, made even better with friends. :-)

Thursday, June 9, 2022

The end of MS




And so a chapter ends. Our girl(s) are growing up and filling the world with their luster. Irini formally finished middle school this year and with that the gulp of parenthood takes a bit more effort. As adrenaline-filled as we are of letting go we are even more proud of the young woman she is becoming. Filled with confidence, and an inner beauty she shines on all of us. Irinouli, keep up that amazing journey that you have begun. We will be here with you wherever it may lead, filled with love and admiration!